Saturday, October 31, 2026

HALLOWEEN MAGIC AND WRITING AMBITION

October went out with a wonderfully spooky, creative, and downright entertaining bang! Halloween gave everyone the perfect excuse to pull out their costumes, embrace a little make-believe, and have some fun.

Kiara and her husband brought a little Renaissance flair to the festivities with their fabulous costumes. Red Skittle went in a completely different direction, transforming himself into Steve from Minecraft, while his brother made sure he was properly equipped with a stone sword straight from the game. Clearly, Minecraft was well represented!

Our crazy oldest son and daughter!
Our wonderful oldest grandchild!
Our youngest grandson!
Katia and Skylar absolutely nailed their costumes as Buttercup and Wesley (the Man in Black) from The Princess Bride. And their daughters? They were the R.O.U.S.s (Rodents of Unusual Size)! Honestly, it doesn't get much better than that. Anybody who can pull off a Princess Bride family theme deserves extra Halloween points!

I'm pretty sure this is the real deal!
Mango and Vanilla Bean
R.O.U.S.s
"As you wish!"
The Browns
Scott and I teamed up with GJ and Ken for a little Middle-earth adventure, channeling J.R.R. Tolkien's The Lord of the Rings. Scott was practically unrecognizable as Gandalf (a pretty impressive transformation!), while I became Galadriel. GJ and Ken completed our fellowship as Samwise Gamgee and Rosie. We were quite the crew! We shared First Treats and Second Treats as a nod to the hobbits!

Gandalf, Galadriel
Samwise, Rosie
Trunk-or-Treats were attended, candy was distributed, costumes were admired, and good times were had by all. Another Halloween successfully added to the memory books!

For Trunk or Treat,
Red Skittle decided to become Ron Weasley.
He's reading Harry Potter 3 and wanted Mango to be Scabbers.
He has no idea who Scabbers really is.
Shhhh! Don't tell him.
Mango loves the candy!
Who says Halloween is only for the kids?!
After our Trunk or Treat, we dressed down
and ate homemade ice-cream thanks to GJ!
I thought our respective shirts were funny,
and captured our crazy personalities!

But wait... the fun didn't stop with Halloween!

As soon as October turned into November, we traded our costumes for keyboards and kicked off NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month)! We gathered for a Zoom kickoff call with Scott, Cody, Kiara, Katia, and "our" Bettenhausens. There was plenty of enthusiasm, a little nervous excitement, and hopefully enough determination to get all those creative juices flowing.

The goal? Write, write, and write some more! Whether we end up with a finished novel, a mountain of messy first drafts, or simply a whole lot of words, we're excited to take on the challenge together.

So here's to Halloween memories, imaginary worlds, literary adventures, and a month full of creativity!

Wish us luck! We're gonna need it!

Thursday, October 29, 2026

OCTOBER: A LITTLE BIT OF EVERYTHING!

October was filled with family, friends, good food, lots of laughter, and plenty of memories! It seems we managed to squeeze a little bit of everything into this month, and I wouldn't have it any other way!

We kicked things off by deciding to check out the Tater Tot Festival in Ontario with our good friends, the Browns. The tater tots were delicious (definitely the highlight!), but let's just say the event itself was a little less exciting than we had hoped. Sometimes it's not about the event anyway, but the people you get to enjoy it with!

My cute husband!
Me
General Conference was wonderful, as usual. There is something so special about setting aside time to listen to the messages of our church leaders and feel spiritually renewed. Of course, we also made sure to celebrate the occasion with our delicious, traditional Conference foods. Because what's General Conference without a little something yummy to munch on while we listen?!

Bacon - Orange Danish Rolls - Sweet Rolls - Mil's Always Eggs - Funeral Potatoes
We also had a special family evening celebrating Trus's Senior Night at his soccer game! We all showed up to cheer him on, celebrate his accomplishments, and let him know how proud we are of him. I really love being his favorite aunt! (Ha ha!) It's hard to believe these kids are growing up so quickly!

Ben - Jetta - Trus - Kristi - Candy Corn
Trus and some fancy foot work
The Lillywhites also had a fun October adventure at Comicon! They went all in, enjoyed the excitement, costumes, characters, and all the fun that comes with a convention like that. It sounded like they had an absolute blast! I love hearing about the adventures everyone is having and seeing the different ways our family finds fun and makes memories. There's never a dull moment with this crew!

Kiara - Cody - Red Jellybean - Red Skittle
Brothers!
B Cell and T Cell
Red Skittle knows Grandma likes Batman
That smile!
I was also in charge of organizing a fall potluck for our piano teacher group. I chose the theme "A Symphony of Flavors," and we enjoyed an afternoon of delicious food, conversation, and getting to know one another a little better. It's always fun to connect with ladies who share a love of music and teaching. And, of course, any gathering with good food is a bonus!


One of the highlights of the month was having Kiara, Cody, and the boys come for a two-day visit! I loved getting to cuddle Red Jellybean and soak up some grandma time. Red Skittle and I also had a special movie date watching Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets since he had read the book! I love finding little ways to connect with each of the grandkids. Their visit went by much too quickly, as they always seem to do!

Red Skittle
RED Brothers!
I LOVE my grandsons!
Just as one family visit ended, another began! Katia and her girls came to spend a week with us while Skylar was in Canada for work. We had the BEST time! There was plenty of laughing, singing, delicious food, dancing, and even some bathtime karaoke! Our house was full of happy noise and activity, and I loved every minute of it. These are the kinds of memories I hope we all tuck away and remember for years to come.

"Grandma, I stuck."
Feeding the chickens with Aunt GJ.
"Here I come!"
Open mouths - like birds!
"I like snakes!"
Vanilla Bean
Aunt Shanae got to meet Vanilla Bean
Then came something that made my mama (and grandma) heart especially happy. My daughters spent the last week of October together! I absolutely LOVED getting updates and pictures of all my grands enjoying their time together. They read books, played, made memories, and even took a trip to the pumpkin patch. Knowing my girls are together, enjoying each other and watching their children build relationships with their cousins, makes my heart so happy. There is something pretty wonderful about seeing the next generation create the same kinds of family memories we have always treasured.

I absolutely love that all 3 of them are reading in this picture!
Books are sooooo wonderful!
Skittle with his new cousin!
Nursing Mothers
Apparently Jellybean told Aunt Katia he wants to be a linebacker.
Red Jellybean and Vanilla Bean
My "BEANS!"
Mango loves her baby cousin
Sisters! MY girls!
Kiara and Katia
The Lillywhites
The Browns
Jellybean and Skittle
He's so cute!
She's so beautiful!
Vanilla Bean and Mango
All in all, October was full of music, family, food, laughter, and a whole lot of love. My heart is full, and I'm feeling especially grateful for the people who make life so sweet.

US
But October isn't quite finished with us yet - stay tuned for Halloween costumes and celebrations!

Thursday, September 10, 2026

WELCOME, VANILLA BEAN

Our family has a brand new reason to celebrate! On Sunday, September 6, our newest granddaughter, Vanilla Bean, made her grand entrance into the world. And just as you might imagine, Grandma and Grandpa are completely smitten!

Coming to earth is serious business!

Meeting the little one!
Vanilla Bean weighed 7 pounds, 11 ounces and was 19 ½ inches long. She is absolutely beautiful with lots of black hair. There is nothing quite like the feeling of holding a brand new grandbaby in your arms. That tiny face, those little fingers, and that sweet newborn smell...my heart is full!

First family picture
Skylar, Mango, Katia and Vanilla Bean
This guy is a GREAT girl dad!
Grandma with her 4th grandchild....
It is perfect every time!
Proud grandpa!
This makes my heart happy!
We are overjoyed!
Scott and I came early so that we could be here to help take care of
Mango while Katia and Skylar were at the hospital welcoming Vanilla Bean. We were more than happy to have some special one-on-one time with our darling Mango. She is such a sweet girl, and it was pretty wonderful getting to spoil her a little while we waited for her baby sister to arrive.

Helping grandpa.
Watching cars go by with grandpa.
Playing the piano for grandma.
Entertaining Jude.
And oh, how she LOVES her new sister! Mango is THRILLED to be a big sister. She is already so interested in Vanilla and seems to think her new little sister is the most wonderful thing in the world. It is precious to watch. I have a feeling Mango is going to be an amazing big sister.

"Can I hold baby sister?"
This is a common occurrence now.
We are so grateful that Mom is doing well, and we are enjoying every minute of this happy, exhausting, wonderful time together.

My beautiful daughter is a champion!
There is something magical about a new baby joining the family. Suddenly there is another little personality to get to know, another laugh to hear, another hand to hold, and another little person to love with your whole heart.

Welcome to our family, sweet girl. Grandma and Grandpa love you more than you could ever know. 

Oh..... and our oldest grandson, Red Skittle, lost his first tooth! The Tooth Fairy brought a WHOLE dollar! Isn't he cute with a whole in his mouth?

He also is about to start reading the 3rd book of Harry Potter.
This kid is sooooo smart!